Saturday, January 9, 2010

How to tell your spouse you what join the National Guard?

I don鈥檛 know how to tell him. We have too small children and I don鈥檛 know how to tell him this something I would like to do. Also Right now either of us are employed and I鈥檓 a full time student. It鈥檚 getting hard to pay for college, books, and diapers. I鈥檓 just scared he is going to jump off the deep end when I tell him.How to tell your spouse you what join the National Guard?
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If it's getting hard to pay for expenses then it sounds like you're trying to be a responsible parent and take care of your responsibilities. If he has a problem with it tell him to get a freaking J-O-B. If he was doing as much to support you and your family as you're trying to then you wouldn't have to struggle to take care of two kids.





So, I sound like a jerk, but I know what I'm talking about. After four years as a Marine my husband came back from Japan to our two kids and me (pregnant). He wanted to get out because after fifteen months he missed his wife and children. He took two months to look for a job, didn't find one, and went back to the Marine Corps because it offered more than any civilian job could (he was six months short of his bachelors' degree at the time). Now, almost three years later he's finishing his Masters' which was paid for by the Corps. We have a roof over our heads, our children are fed, clothed, and happy. And the best part for all five of us? I still get to stay home with them every day, he gets an education, and it really is a good life. We're not necessarily paid well, but the military helps out its' troops in terms of benefits. Imagine how many diapers your drill time could pay for...then imagine how many diapers your lazy hubby pays for and you should KNOW the answer. I think you do in your heart because you're asking in the first place!How to tell your spouse you what join the National Guard?
I say good choice, tell him your trying to better your family plain and simple and tell him he needs to consider the same option. Their should never be any unemployed people in the US because the military is always hiring. The only ones who can't join are medically challenged people, educationally challenged people and of course law or ethically challenged people. Good for you.
why don't you tell your husband to enlist.





if you want to enlist, then do it.





seeing as he's your husband, he should support you.








and crazy drummer-your a real jack a s s ..
look into the guards college first option. if you don't have much time left in school it will prevent you from deploying b4 graduation. the realize the guard does deploy. i say look into the air force reserve as well and air national guard as well. It will give you money for books and tuition, and a check.. just drill pay, but its better than no pay. I think people may see you a being selfish but I see you as willing to sacrifice to make the best life for your kids in the future. As far as telling your husband get all the literature first in regards to job training, pay and benefits. So as you talk he has something to look at and see how it benefits the family as a whole. Talk about the money for college and the extra money every month that can go towards diapers, and how after basic for the most part you are gone one weekend a month and two weeks a year to train.
you dont get a job once you have 2 small children. thats your your husbands job... if you wanted to be in the national guard, you shouldn't have had kids.





thats very selfish of you, you had your time to do that.
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