What is the best relationship to have with your lover or spouse?

:)What is the best relationship to have with your lover or spouse?
I agree with a previous answer, being friends, good friends, for years before any kind of deepening of the relationship is best.








and to ';onallfoursladies';: with a username like that, you are awfully touchy about having an honest and open dialogue that involves sex. yes, she is young, and you know what? young people have the same urges and desires that adults do. not talking to them about it is a recipe for neuroses at worst and experimentation without knowledge at best. Knowledge is the best protection.What is the best relationship to have with your lover or spouse?
You must be best friends, love being together, have respect for each other, keep Harmony with both families, communication is very important. cry on each others shoulders , respect her opinion and listen to her when she has something to say, and do not by shy to say ';I Love You'; in words and in actions. Often !!
A great one. My boyfriend and I look at our relationship as being best friends and lovers.
I beleve you have to be bestfriends for a relationship to work!





Best friends are honest....share secrets.....never shy around each other.....always want to be together....i could go on and on......
I would say an honest one!
best friend.. someone you can believe in,. lover as well as helpmate.....one that will be there through the tough times as well as the good times......almost impossible to find.....one that thinks of her as well as he does hisself........shows love and concern in many ways.........gee do i expect to much.....that is why i am staying single.........for now on.....oh i almost forgot a man that is not abusive and is really in love and treasures his wife.........
It depends on what you are referring too, but I would have to say that an intellectual relationship is best. Lets face it, you can only have sex so often, the rest of your time is spent just getting to know your partner.
probably to have either a lover or a spouse... not both.
Honesty,and loving care within that relationship are the best things.





Edit:


';onallfoursladies'; ain't you a little moody!!!


I'm well aware of Sigy's age and I see no wrong with her asking that question. Go get a cup of coffee and relax ~_~
I think a good relationship must cross all relationship boundaries and include, parent-child, friend-friend, and lovers.
A loving, communicative, understanding, kind, caring relationship is wonderful!





Edit: Her age isnt listed on her YA profile...how am I to know she is 15?
There are so many different dynamics that a relationship can have but regardless of what type it is there are a few things required for it to be a happy one. Mutual trust, honesty, loyalty, compassion and concern for one anothers well being.
One where both people respect one another, and where there is no belittling going on. I hear so many women describe their husbands as their biggest child, and I think that is an unhealthy relationship.
Have you ever answered questions on Polls %26amp; Surveys, one of the entertainment categories?


It's a lot fun than this category.


A lot of people in that category answer reltaionship questions all the time.
Good friends and lovers


Respected and respectful


Supportive


Sense of humor


Enjoys debating interesting topics


Moral


Trustworthy


Grows rather than stagnates as a couple and as individuals





To the first poster ';onallfoursladies'; (above): What difference does it make if Sigy is 15 or 50? You are pitching a fit for nothing.





Edit to ';on all fours ladies';---a telling name by the way. Yahoo requires members to be 13 or above and I accept that age line.
The one where he took my breath away.