Yes. Have him arrested, get him into rehab.
Figure out how you are going to pay the bills in the mean time.
Seriously consider disappearing from that home.If your spouse in on drugs and creating problems, can police arrest them in the home?
YES, you CAN have them arrested in your home. Just a simple call to the police. PLEASE be VERY CAREFUL w/these strangers, you have NO idea of just what they could do. NO, you are NOT safe! If your husband won't do anything to get himself straightened out, they you'd have NO alternative but to turn him in. If the money is gone, you don't know what they want or what they'll take in retaliation. You are NOT in a safe environment whatsoever. Your safely come first at all costs, so just remember that. People on drugs are not safe, they are not doing the thinking, the drugs are doing the thinking. Cocaine is a VERY EXPENSIVE ';habit'; %26amp; he already just could have quite a large sum of money owed to these ';shady individuals. Just PLEASE BE CAREFUL %26amp; leave nothing to chance. Get them ALL out of your home NOW. The police are only a phone call away, but be very careful NO ONE hears you make that call! You're dealing w/desperate people, %26amp; desperate people do desperate things...Be safe...:)
Pack all of your important and valuable sh@t while this man is gone or sleeping. Have a cab or relative waiting. Then leave. If you have children, take them with you to a relative's or friend's house. If the place is in your name, he can be removed by the land lord. If it's in his name, there's nothing you can do. If it's in both of your names, you must wait for the divorce to be finalized in order to decide who keeps what. Good luck.
Yes police can arrest him in your home - he has drugs and probably plenty of drug paraphernalia in your home - that would be a reason for an arrest. He needs rehab - an arrest will just land him in jail. If you want to feel safe and comfortable get out of the home - because more than likely, if you had him arrested, those shady characters would probabaly still show up. Leave right away.
I agree you need to get out..fast! If he doesn't have money to buy drugs, then he is capable of doing anything. Does he owe these ';shady'; individuals money? If he does, then that is even worse because they are going to want their money. They may raid your house or even harm you.
Call or go to the police station and ask them for help. (yes he can be arrested in the home and you can too, if there are drugs in the house and sombody else call the cops). It will be faster than trying to figure out how to get him into rehab on your own. The sad thing is that if he doesn't want help, then nobody can help him! So you may just want to think about how to get out of the house and keep yourself safe. Go stay with friends. If you are afraid of him and afraid that he might find you, then go to the police and ask them to help you find a woman's shelter. It may not be the Hilton, but at least you will be safe.
First Leave.
Second Report this criminal activity to the authorities
If - and only if- proper treatment has been received and you still want a relationship then think about that. But remember- rehab is a lifelong dedication to NOT doing drugs- and cocaine is a hard one to break. Take care of you- no matter what...
You should leave get yourself out of there as soon as you can.
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